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Today Christian came home so eager to view his grades online. When he logged on, he proudly showed us the following grades.

Art: 81.3% B

Math: 95.0% A

Science: 100.0% A

English: 90.0% A

I know it’s only been three weeks, but this is so important, because I had been told that there was a very good chance Christian would now have some learning disabilities, from all the chemo, meds & radiation. It is wonderful to see him so motivated and eager to do well in school. I pray he continues on this path to academic success.

Now that Christian has been recovering so beautifully, I’ve had more time to think about what it has taken our family to get to this point. Recently I began to wonder more about what a mental and emotional toll Christian’s illness had taken on our other children, & how they’ve coped with it all. The boys are part of the “Super Sibs” program and have gone on outings with other siblings going through similar circumstances. This program has sent the boys certificates of appreciation, books of how to deal with having a sibling with cancer, T-shirts, trophies and metals, all reminding them that they too are special and very important.  

This is a poem our 14 year old son Ismael wrote for his English class today. This is so moving, because he is very reserved and does not show his emotions easily. I feel this is very therapeutic for him and we were VERY proud of the grade he earned for pouring his heart out on paper.

(please click on the links below to view)

ismaels-poem.jpg, ismaels-grade.jpg, Poem for English Class

Christian was just at his monthly clinic appointment at UCLA and the lab results are so good he no longer needs to take the last of the meds he’s been on for 2 years. He is so happy. As you all know, Christian has taken an INSANE amount of medication and this is a BIG mile stone for him. He was eager to go to school after his appointment this morning, and as he walked to his class my Mom told him how glad she was to be “escorting” him to school. He said he loved how the cool air feels on his skin. He said it feels so good when the wind blows on him. It’s always the little things that mean the MOST.  Just wanted you all to share in this joyous moment.   :o)

Two years ago on this date we got the devastating news about Christian’s health. It just amazes me how quickly time has gone by.  We lived all of 2008 wondering if Christian would be able to beat this cancer or survive the intense treatment. We felt uncertain if we would ever get to the place we are today.

I’m at a lost fo words right now….

We praise God for restoring Christian’s health and we thank you the countless family and friends who have stuck by us and supported us in one way or another.

Christian looks amazing in my opinion!

He just asked me if anyone still checks his site. I told him on the post of his return school there were 11 comments. He smiled and said ”WOW” I thought people had forgot about my site”.

After 2 strenuous and painful years, Christian Kirby has returned to school starting his 1st day of Junior High today. He has been looking forward to this day for months now. Christian & I got a tour of the campus yesterday, meeting with the magnet coordinator, 6th grade counselor, and two out four of his teachers. It was wonderful seeing the joy it brought him to walk around his “new” school. The staff was so friendly, supportive and really made him feel welcome. The good thing was he saw a few friends and they too were very pleased to see him.

Throughout the day yesterday, Christian kept telling me “I’m gonna miss you Mom”.  I didn’t want him to know, but I’d shed a few tears when I would think about him returning to school. I mean we were together day & night for two years and with the circumstances we were living in, it just added to my ”motherly OVER protectiveness”. LOL  

This morning he was so excited he woke up at 1:15am got dressed and THEN went to look at the clock. When he saw the time and that everyone was still asleep, he went back to bed. When 6:00am came around he got up right away and told us what had happened earlier. We all smiled and told him were proud of him for waking up all by himself and so early.

We had been instructed to be at the bus stop by 6:55am. We arrived at 6:45am just to make sure there was no rush. We waited til 7:05am and when the bus didn’t arrive, I call the transportation dept. After waiting 25 minutes for someone to answer my call, I was told he was not in the system to be bused to and from school. I know this added to Christian’s anxiety, because he kept asking me to drive around the school where the bus was to pick him up to make sure it didn’t stop at a different part of the school. I told him not to worry, I was going to drive him to school. As we walked to the main entrance of the campus I could see him start to walk behind me and he said he wished he could see some friends, cause he felt nervous. We walked to the office so I could get him added to the bus route roster.

Once that was taken care of his 3rd period teacher met us in the hall to escort him to class. He gave me a nervous little wave and couldn’t resist giving me a hug. As I watched him walk away, I prayed that he has a smooth transition and that no one bothers him.

Now, we are eagerly waiting for him to come home so we can hear all about his first day. 

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!

We had a very good holiday considering the fact that Christian got sick on Christmas Day. He had  a fever that went from 101-102 for 2 days. I took him to see his pediatrician and learned he had an infection in both ears. He’s been on an antibiotic for 10 days now. Since the fluid did not drain & he’s having even more trouble hearing he will have tubes put in his ears this Friday 1/8/10 at Miller Children’s Hospital.

This is a minor surgery considering all our trooper has endured, but we ask that you keep him in your prayers. 

Thank you,

Ish & Les

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A year ago today Christian under went his bone marrow transplant. Last Christmas, our family life was in total disarray.  Ismael and I  just went through the “motion” of Christmas for the sake of Ismaelito, Noah and Isabella. We were lucky enough to have a web cam to keep us in visual contact with Christian and my Mom during the holiday season. Our tradition is to open gifts on the eve of Christmas day, but last year Christian was so tired from the radiation and transplant, he couldn’t wait til midnight. After opening gifts around 6pm, my husband took the kids to his Grandmother’s for the annual get together and I stayed home and watched Christian through the webcam. Once he said goodbye to his brothers and sister he went right to sleep. I sat on the couch in my livivng room and watched him sleep, feeling sad about not having him home and not being able to be with him.

 Today, all five of my babies were cuddled up the couch watching Home Alone while I put the finally decorating touches on our Christmas tree. That moment warmed my heart and brought me so much happiness. I have to say that I’m so proud of us for making the best of such a heart breaking situation. I feel the sacrifices that we made as a whole paid off.

Christian looks amazing, he’ll be returning to school in January and our family life is once again moving forward after being at a stand still for a year and a half.

Ismael and I thank you for all of the moral and emotional support you have given us through it all.

We wish you a wonderful Christmas and a joyous New Year.

Christian’s surgery went well. Thank you for all you well wishes and prayers. The Dr. told me he had no puss, but alot of inflammation and what looked like polyps. Christian came out of the anesthesia in much pain and VERY CRANKY as expected. He will have bloody discharge from his nose and mouth for the next day or so. There was talk of discharging him today, but the Dr.’s feel  it’s best observe him for at least 24 hours.

Today about noon, Christian had the P.I.C.C. line put into his left arm. He was so scared about having it done he could not sleep last night. Right before the orderly came to take him down to the procedure room he was teary eyed and anxious. To help him relax, Christian was given Versed. Once they were ready to begin, I was escorted out.

Since I had not eaten anything because Christian couldn’t eat or drink, I went to the cafeteria and bought lunch. I came back up to the room and waited for him to return. About an hour and a half later, two doctors brought him back to me. I asked if he needed a large amount of medication for sedation and she said he did need quite a bit. It took the Versed and Propofol to sedate him.

Yesterday after I had informed you that Christian was to under go a surgery to flush his sinuses, I learned that the E.N.T. (Ear Nose Throat) doctors wanted the antibiotics to run their course instead of operating on him. The risks involve causing some cranial damage and permanent damage to his vision. The Hem/Onc doctors argued that the risks in keeping Christian on theses strong antibiotics for months could include damaging his liver, kidneys and cause other side effects. Both sides went back and forth all day yesterday and half of today.

 About 3:00 this afternoon one of the Hem/Onc doctors told me the E.N.T. doctors decided to do the surgery ‘conservatively’. They are going to go in through his nostrils up into his sinuses and make several small incisions to widen his glands. This will be done while he’s under general anesthesia of course. The Infectious Disease department will collect some samples from the procedure and test different antibiotics to see what kills the infection the most quickly and effectively.

This surgery will take place some time on Tuesday. Please keep our Christian in your prayers.

 Christian had been having fevers off and on for a while now so he was put on an antibiotic and Zyrtec, but neither seemed to work. On Monday 11/2/09 I brought him to UCLA where he was admitted right away. They drew a bounty of labs, did and a chest X-ray and CT scan of his chest and sinus. All these tests revealed that he has a sinus infection so severe in caused two types of infection in his blood and he has to have surgery to drain the fluid from his sinuses.

With the threat of this infection going to his brain, this ‘last resort’ procedure must be done. Christian will also be getting a P.I.C.C. line again. The news upset him and he started crying because he had a painful experience with the first one. The Dr. told me since I have administered antibiotics intravenously to him before, he could be home while on the two week course of antibiotics. This is such relief for me because I REALLY miss my other children and my hubby. I mean I haven’t seen them in 3 days and it feels like an eternity.

As soon as they perform the surgery and put in the P.I.C.C. line he’ll be discharged.

 Please pray that Christian’s surgery goes well and that the infection does not spread and cause anymore complications.